By Stacy Bohdan
Dear Stacy,
I have a problem–I like two different guys. One I’ve know 4 years, the other I’ve known only 6-7 months. What should I do? Give the 4 years another try?
–Lost in Love
Dear Lost in Love–
Which one do you care about more? You can’t have them both–that’s wrong. So you have to let one or the other go! I can only wish you the best of luck, not tell you which one to go for. Good Luck!
Dear Stacy,
I’ve been seeing a guy for the last 2 months. He means a lot to me and I love him but, soon enough he has to leave for the Army. He will be gone for about 5 months at a time. I want to wait for him and have or continue my relationship with him when he returns but it will be hard to let him go. Lately, I’ve been unconsciously pulling away, so that the pain will not be as harsh. Am I doing the right thing?
–In love and scared.
Dear In Love-Scared–
Are you willing to wait 5 months at a time? It’s only been 2 months; don’t commit yourself if you’re not ready! You may end up waiting for nothing! You’re just too young to wait for awhile. You should feel free to see other people! It doesn’t mean you don’t care if you want to see other people. Don’t just pull away, he might get the wrong idea. Good Luck!
Dear Stacy,
I know this person and I have for a while, more or less she’s like my best friend (or she at least used to be). Well, her really good friend told her to do something (which wasn’t nice) and she is really upset.
Should I help her?
–A caring friend
Dear Caring Friend–
Maybe you should talk to her, explain your feelings, and if she keeps doing what her other friend tells her, maybe she needs some serious help. I guess all you can do is try. Good Luck!
Dear Stacy,
I really like this guy. I went on a school trip with him and I kind of have developed a crush on him. He’s not that good looking and I don’t know that much about him, but he’s got a great sense of humor and he can be a nice guy. I don’t want to tell him I like him because he hangs around totally different people and his friends would probably think really bad of me. But I want to tell him how I feel, but I want to know what he thinks of me. What should I do?
“Raidar”
Dear Raidar–
I think you should tell this guy how you feel, except don’t keep ragging on him, maybe if he knows how you feel, he’ll open up to you more. If he lets his friends judge you, he’s not worth it. Good luck!